Who Told You That?: 13 Questions to Help You Heal, Unmask & Step Into the You God Already Sees

Who Told You That?: 13 Questions to Help You Heal, Unmask & Step Into the You God Already Sees

What if the story you’ve been living isn’t the truth—but a lie you unknowingly agreed to? From childhood whispers that silenced your voice, to the heavy weight of trauma, shame, and expectations that told you who you had to be—many of us spend years living out identities that were never ours to carry. But what if you could unmask the lies, uncover who God created you to be, and finally live free? In Who Told You That? , Coach Kera Grey weaves together raw personal stories, biblical truth, and practical tools to guide you through an identity-healing journey. More than a memoir, this is a roadmap—a faith-filled companion that helps you recognize the lies, reclaim your voice, and walk boldly in the identity God designed for you. Inside you’ll discover: How trauma, culture, and religion shape false identities—and how to break free The difference between performance-based worth and God’s unconditional love Why hyper-independence, people-pleasing, and perfectionism keep you stuck Frameworks and journal prompts to help you process, heal, and reframe your story Prayers and declarations to anchor your identity in Christ, not in pain or past mistakes Whether you’ve battled depression, abuse, abandonment, or the pressure of being “the strong one,” this book is for the woman who is tired of masks and ready for freedom. You don’t have to live in the shadow of lies any longer. Your true identity is waiting. If you’re ready to heal what hurt you, silence the enemy’s voice, and embrace who God says you are—open these pages and begin the journey of becoming whole, healed, and unmasked. Perfect for women of faith, survivors of trauma, and anyone navigating identity, healing, and wholeness.