Why Mr. Right Can't Find You: The surprising answers that will change your life - and his

Why Mr. Right Can't Find You: The surprising answers that will change your life - and his

This is the Second Edition of J.M. Kearns’ acclaimed self-help book, which has been published in Canada, the U.S., the U.K., Australia, France, and China. It received rave reviews from numerous media including Publisher’s Weekly, OK! magazine, and Maclean’s, and has been featured by Oprah & Friends, Glamour, Cosmopolitan-UK, Woman’s World, Complete Woman, and many others. In this newly revised and updated edition, J.M. Kearns, PhD, shows that finding true love can be a proactive adventure. Men, he explains, are not shallow, not the enemy, and not aliens from Mars. In fact, the good man who is searching for you is your greatest ally. Kearns overturns the classic dating myths —e.g., that destiny chose the “one and only” man for you, that all men prefer the same body type, that you should wait passively for the right guy to ride into your life—and explores the real-world venues where man-woman “sightings” occur and should not be squandered. Kearns solves the neglected riddle of compatibility with a hilarious and practical guide to the factors that make two people a good long-term match for each other, illustrated with real-life vignettes straight from the dating trenches. Finally, a fully updated online dating section gives clear, simple advice on why online dating gives the best odds, how to choose the best dating site for you (including a section on Tinder), photo sets, matchmaking, body issues, and that crucial first meeting. Review “If you've been on the lookout for ages but still haven't found The One, this is for you...you'll be in the arms of your true love in no time!” — OK! Magazine “Practical, encouraging and...optimistic...Kearns gently undermines the conventions and insecurities that keep women from actively and effectively seeking a mate, including self-defeating myths and media-inspired body-image issues... Personal anecdotes round out this thorough, thoughtful and entirely upbeat dating guide.” —Publishers Weekly “I review self-help books for a living and this is the best self-help book I've ever read.” — Julia McKinnell, Contributing editor, Maclean's “Unlike most such books, Why Mr. Right Can't Find You is funny, inspiring and quite practical. A new book aimed specifically at successful, real single women, it may be just the thing you need to find Mr. Right-for-you. And it's been known to help a few men find their Ms. Right.” — Carolyn Cooke in The Now Newspaper