I LOST MYSELF TRYING TO SAVE US: A Woman's Guide To Reclaiming Herself From Narcissistic Abuse

I LOST MYSELF TRYING TO SAVE US: A Woman's Guide To Reclaiming Herself From Narcissistic Abuse

She loved deeply. She stayed longer than she should have. She lost herself trying to keep a relationship alive with someone who was slowly erasing her.This book is for the woman who questioned her sanity while loving a narcissist. The woman who kept explaining her pain, hoping empathy would finally land. The woman who carried the emotional weight of the relationship, the home, the children, and the silence. The woman who woke up one day and realized she no longer recognized herself.I Lost Myself Trying To Save Us is not a sugarcoated story. It is raw, honest, and grounded in lived experience. Told in a first-person voice, this book walks you through the full reality of narcissistic abuse. The charm at the beginning. The confusion. The slow loss of confidence. The guilt. The cycles of hope and disappointment. The manipulation that made you feel responsible for fixing what you did not break.Inside these pages, you will learn how narcissists think, why they behave the way they do, and why love never seems to be enough. You will see their patterns clearly, including gaslighting, blame shifting, control, rage, silent treatment, and smear campaigns. You will understand why they come back after you leave, why they target strong women, and why the abuse often escalates when children are involved.Most importantly, this book focuses on you. Your healing. Your identity. Your children. Your boundaries. Your future.This is not a book about saving a relationship. It is a book about saving yourself.If you have ever thought, “If I try harder, we will be okay,” this book will change how you see everything.You are not broken. You were surviving.And now, you are choosing yourself.