Grief Is Love: Living with Loss

Grief Is Love: Living with Loss

A trusted grief expert shares advice on how to navigate the loss of a loved one in this incisive and compassionate guide: “calm, lucid prose… humanizing exploration of coping with the life-changing tides of loss” ( Kirkus Reviews ). In Grief is Love , author Marisa Renee Lee reveals that healing does not mean moving on after losing a loved one — healing means learning to acknowledge and create space for your grief. It is about learning to love the one you lost with the same depth, passion, joy, and commitment you did when they were alive, perhaps even more. She guides you through the pain of grief—whether you’ve lost the person recently or long ago—and shows you what it looks like to honor your loss on your unique terms, and debunks the idea of a grief stages or timelines.  Grief is Love is about making space for the transformation that a significant loss requires. In beautiful, compassionate prose, Lee elegantly offers wisdom about what it means to authentically and defiantly claim space for grief’s complicated feelings and emotions. And Lee is no stranger to grief herself, she shares her journey after losing her mother, a pregnancy, and, most recently, a cousin to the COVID-19 pandemic. These losses transformed her life and led her to question what grief really is and what healing actually looks like. In this book, she also explores the unique impact of grief on Black people and reveals the key factors that proper healing requires: permission, care, feeling, grace and more. The transformation we each undergo after loss is the indelible imprint of the people we love on our lives, which is the true definition of legacy. At its core,  Grief is Love  explores what comes after death, and shows us that if we are able to own and honor what we’ve lost, we can experience a beautiful and joyful life in the midst of grief.  Amazon, “Best Nonfiction Books of the Month ” and “Best Biographies and Memoirs of the Month” Shelf Awareness, “Best Books of the Week, Reviewed” ― .   “It’s hard to fathom how much better the world would be if every grieving person had a friend like Marisa Renee Lee… [She] shares all of the deeply compassionate wisdom grieving people need… any grieving person should make friends with this book.”― Glamour “ Grief Is Love  is, in a way, a call to action, but more so a call to compassion.”  ― Shelf Awareness "Lee is refreshingly direct as she explores the overwhelming emotions she has experienced since the death of her mother. [Lee] made me feel less alone in the world and, well, a little less melancholic. And maybe a little more melancholic, too." ― Vulture “With calm, lucid prose… [a] humanizing exploration of coping with the life-changing tides of loss.”― Kirkus “Clearly written and accessible to many readers, this book adds a leader's personal voice to the growing body of work inviting us to grieve better.” ― Booklist “ Grief is Love , Lee examines a different path; how to make room for your grief, honour your loss, and continue experiencing the love you felt for the person while they were alive. Drawing on her own experiences of grief, Lee gives a frank and sensitive view on how to process and transform your feelings.”― Book Riot “Marisa Renee Lee is the friend we all wish we had in times of need: compassionate, smart, understanding, and endlessly wise.  Grief is Love  is the closest many of us will get to understanding eternal love for another.”― Elaine Welteroth, cohost of The Talk and New York Times bestselling author of More Than Enough "Grief Is Love is what the world needs. Marisa’s vulnerability humanizes pain, longing, and loss. Saying this book should be required reading is an understatement."― Alexandra Elle, author of After the Rain “Authentic, all-inclusive, and utterly breathtaking,  Grief is Love  is the  book that will help you deal with your darkest days and walks with you as you venture back into the light.”― Willie Geist, cohost of The Today Show and New York Times bestselling author of Good Talk, Dad "In  Grief Is Love,  Marisa Renee Lee has transformed her own profound losses into a powerful meditation on what grief is at its core: an extension of love. She invites us to reframe grief as an everlasting tribute, not as a burden, and her insights about healing will be a gift to countless readers. Losing a loved one is life-changing; this book will be life-changing for readers, too."  ― Maggie Smith, National bestselling author of Keep Moving “This is a beautiful memoir about the love that lasts after loss. With powerful prose and refreshing candor, Marisa Renee Lee challenges the cultural stigma around grief and highlights a healthier way to cope. If you’re struggling with loss, reading this book might just be a jolt of hope.”  ― Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Again and Option B “This book, like its author, radiates empathy, rejects platitudes, and uplifts even while interrogating life's darkest crevices